Tips on self - love and confidence...

I know we have all struggled with confidence at some point. Even I have. But really you are all worth it and lovable. I have always compared myself to other people and wished I was as pretty as them or as smart as them. But wishing isn't going to do anything. And the more you compare yourself to other people, the unhappier you are going to be. It doesn't matter if I am just like them, I'm not and I never will be. I have gotten a lot of this advice from my mom. One day I hope to be as wise and strong as her. It will just take some work. There is a difference between wanting to be different, to please your self and wanting to please other people. If you want to be better at a subject in school, that is for yourself. If you wish you had blue eyes or a tiny waist or whatever, that is to please others. And also as my mom says " you can't please everyone." And that is correct. Now here I have some tips to help you be more confident and love yourself...

• Wear something that you truly feel good in and pretty in. Wear an outfit that makes you feel like you. Stand in front of a mirror and say...

" I am a beautiful person and I like this outfit, I look good, I feel good, and no bitch can stop me. "

• If you feel unloved and bad about yourself, get a piece of paper, and a pen or pencil or crayon idgaf that's not the point. Then find a peaceful spot, and write down 10 good things about yourself. Or write down 10 situations where you felt loved and happy. Think about how you can feel that way again.

• Write in a journal. A TON of doctors recommend it for feelings. I mean Jennifer Aniston and Lady Gaga write in a journal, that's 5 reasons to do it right there.

• Talk to someone about it, a friend, a pet, a family member, aa stuffed animal...Just get it out girlfriend

Treat yourself -

• Get a new hairstyle that you like and feel good in.

• Get your nails done

• Go out and get some Ben and Jerry's all for yourself

• Do anything you want and love yourself

These are just some quick things and I just want you to know that you are an amazing and beautiful person and you are here for a reason. You are loved and you should love others but more importantly...love you.💖

Love, elaina <33